On July 3rd, a day after my 30th birthday, Tomas, my dear friend, and the pastor of our church that we have been serving with, said: “I know this is unexpected, but Sisa and I have begun considering the possibility of moving to go plant a church in Bratislava earlier than we’ve been talking about. I wanted to ask you to consider becoming the pastor here in the summer of 2018.”
Yes indeed, this was a pretty unexpected ask! Bold move, Tomas! That’s why I like him. But, like he said, that was indeed not the plan.
We had come to Nitra for a period of learning, listening, and language for approximately two years, with the open-handed plan of heading out to plant a church.
Two days before this big ask, a day before my 30th birthday, I had hiked up a mountain to an old castle ruin to spend the day in prayer reflecting on the last three decades and looking forward to the one ahead. I landed on a simple question that I meditated on as I considered the future: “Do I want to be famous or faithful?” In many ways that question encapsulated the journey of the last few years, especially our time in Tacoma. An easy question to answer, maybe, but hard to live out.
After Tomas asked the big question, I remember telling Laurel that yes, this was an unexpected ask, but that I wasn’t taken back or surprised by it, because of my walk a few days before that. Or maybe our walk for the last few years. We were in a place where we could pray for and consider this.
After four+ months of praying… and difficult and exciting elder meetings, and difficult and exciting meetings with our missional community leaders, and many late night Skype calls with Soma and Acts 29 friends and mentors, we announced this decision to our church on the last Sunday in October!

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